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I'm 21, Female, With No Sex Dive, and it is Ruining my Marriage

Sun, Oct 24th 2010

I am 21 years old and I married my husband 5 months ago. When we first started having sex, we would have sex daily, and it was great. The last few months leading up to the wedding, my sex drive started diminishing. Now it is nonexistant. My husband is wonderful. He cooks, cleans, listens, works hard, is romantic, affectionate, caring, smart, etc. However, this problem I'm having with my sex drive is making him suffer. He tries to do everything he can think of to get me in the mood, but I just can't. I just feel like sex is another chore on the list to do. He doesn't deserve this because he is so good to me, but I just don't know what to do. Even when I suck it up and have sex with him, I don't really enjoy it and I can\t wait until its over. Help?

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