death of a dear friendMon, Aug 27th 2007
My best friend was killed in a tornado nearly two years ago. I was supposed to be staying the night with her the night she died. My cell phone had died that night so she was never able to get a hold of me so i didn't go to her house. So the next morning when my dad found me and told me what had happened i was shocked but i also felt very guilty. I still do. I never talk to anyone about it but my life revolves around her death. It's almost like i'm obsessed with it. All i ever think about it what i could have done. I don't know who to talk to about it or if these feeling are normal and they with pass. I would appreciate it if you could help me in any way. Thank you for your time.
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